When you take possession of your mind, you then have full control of your success possibilities and direct your energy towards your success points.
Associate yourself with positive people who will help you to your successful journey. If someone discourages you delete from your life for a while if possible and put your head down and work hard towards your dream.
I am a firm believer in taking small steps a day towards that success, learn something new everyday. Disappointments are part of the journey but take them as lessons. Yes its easier said than done at times!
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