Ok you can confess to be the proud Aunt to your nephews and nieces, you love them dearly! And you enjoy spending time together and you spoil them a bit too much!
The question that everyone has been asking you is, when are you planning on having your own children? Are you planning on having any, time is running out they say!
This is a question that is asked in full view of everyone and for a while one will laugh and brush it off BUT what no one knows is how difficult it has been for you to actually conceive! It has not been for lack of trying.
The question then is, is it insensitive to ask a woman when she is planning on having children? By the way this happens to couples as well as single women!
I know a lot of people who go through this emotional battle very privately. Growing up I had an aunt who I was very fond of, whenever we visited she went all out to entertain us, and she would play with us and cook the best meals ever.
As a child I didn’t understand why she never had children but I loved going to her place, only later on in my life, did I figure it out!
Is it insensitive to ask? Or can we blame it on just a general conversation?? As a society should we just not be asking such questions and be sensitive? This question can cut really deep!
Life is never a straight line, everyone follows a different path! God does not give you more than you can handle!
Is it best to just find a business you love and give it your all? Until another blessing comes for you?
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